Monthly Archives: November 2016

The Free Crazy Wild Love Holiday Challenge Starts December 1st

The Holiday Challenge is back and better than ever! I didn’t do it last year because I was too much of an exhausted new mama. I am thrilled to be hosting it again this December.

Before I give you the juicy details, I want to share a delightful story about how the little things make a big difference…

When I was a kid, my mom used to leave notes hidden around the house for me. She had a stack of cards that said fun things and she’d always sign them “xoxo mama”.

I’d find one in my violin case, in my lunch box, on my pillow. It was a game between the two of us that reminded me in small ways on a daily basis that I was loved.

Here’s a picture of one I saved.

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I’m also lucky to be married to a man who knows the value of doing small things for each other consistently.

When he was on a business trip, he sent me a postcard with our picture on the front and the story of our relationship on the back. (It all started with a cold motorcycle ride, a glass of wine and takeout Chinese food…)

“The little things? The little moments? They aren’t little.” – Jon Kabat Zinn.

I find it equally important and beneficial to give ourselves a small token of love each day.

I also know that, especially women, we tend to put ourselves last. During the holiday season we can feel stressed-out, burnt-out, and spinning out of control.

I have discovered that the key to being fulfilled in my life and relationships is through enjoying the little things and cultivating an inner state of self-love. This is why I’ve created a fun and easy way to help you spend some time this holiday season creating the most joyous, luminous life you can imagine.

Starting on December 1st, I’m hosting my Crazy Wild Love Holiday Challenge and it’s completely free.

Every day, you’ll receive little prompts, pep-talks, affirmations and inspiration to fill your day with calm, love, and joy with the support of the Crazy Wild Love community.

Self-love isn’t about being selfish. It’s about giving ourselves enough love and energy that we are literally bursting with it so that everyone and everything around us will benefit.

With the structure of the challenge and the amazing community we have, you can’t help but making lasting change. Because those people who take time to enjoy their lives get…well….to enjoy their life. You can sign up here.

I’d love to have you join us.

Make sure you sign up now for free and tell your friends to come along. You can send them to: www.alexismeads.com/challenge

Here are some highlights from the last challenge:cwl-week-2-collage

This isn’t just a challenge, this is a MOVEMENT! Let’s make this the best year yet! And if you participated before, I’d love to have you again.

The winner of the #cwlchallenge gets a lifetime scholarship to the Crazy Wild Love Academy and a $25 Sephora gift card.

Hugs and holiday fun,

Alexis

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12 Christmas's Day Love Quote You should Tell Him

Christmas is a global holiday that is celebrated by Christians all over the world on December 25th every year. It is celebrated to remember the birth Jesus Christ who was born by Virgin Mary according to the Holy Bible. Common knowledge has it that Jesus was not born on December 25th but this date was chosen in order to coincide with the New Year celebrations. This is a time when the world comes together in love and celebrates together with no discrimination. Christmas is associated with love and it is one season of the year when people are very philanthropic. As one Norman Vincent put it, “Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful.” Couples are not left out in showing their love for each other during Christmas. Lots of weddings are said to happen in this month of the year. There are certain Christmas Day love quotes for your boyfriend or husband as a way of showing love during the Christmas season. These are:-

  1. This Christmas all I want is a gift bag full of laughter and joy with you, Merry Christmas my love.

This is a Christmas love message that is intended to let him know that you value the lovely moments you spend together. It is a creative way of asking him to give you more time to spend with you. Quality time spent together by couples doing little things that they like is the greatest treasure in any relationship. Women should learn how to look for it from their probably busy men.

  1. “The day ends with a night full of stars that never appeared more beautiful than before. Each twinkling star is passed along to you with a special wish; that all the days you live could be like Christmas.”

This message is aimed at wishing him all the best in his future endeavors. Women want the best for their husbands. It is important to remind him that especially during this special time of the year. the reminder should be filled with love and the above quote accomplishes just that.

  1. “It’s Christmas, play and make great cheer, for it comes once a year.”

He may be the workaholic type of a man. This would be a lovely way to encourage him to relax a bit and have some fun. This quote can be sued to ask him out into one of his favorite holiday destinations.

  1. “May you have the spirit of Christmas with every Christmas card I write, may your days be happy and bright, Happy Christmas.”

This message is intended to wish him well during the Christmas season. It can be applicable especially if you are not spending the Christmas with him. It is important to make him know you wish him well wherever he could be.

  1. “Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love!” Hamilton Wright.

During Christmas everybody wants to do something good to someone. This is a sign of love. You can tell him this to encourage him to do an act of love. You could visit a children’s home together.

  1. “Love is not about how many days, months or years you have been together. It is about how much you love each other every single day. Merry Christmas my love.

This message reminds him in a polite and lovely manner that you need to rekindle your love life and make it better than ever before.

  1. “With you, each and every day is Christmas day for me.” Love you

The message shows he brings you so much joy. Every day with him is Christmas.

  1. “ I have a hero, I call him (insert his name here)” happy Christmas

Men should be heroes to their l oved ones. Let him know that he is your hero on the Christmas day.

  1. “One cry awakened the world, one birth changed history, one life made all the difference.”

If your man is a Christian and believes in the Holy Bible, this is great quote to remind him of the love of Jesus to mankind.

  1. “May we not observe Christmas or spend Christmas but rather keep it”. Peter Marshall

The peace and love that comes with Christmas should be retained even after Christmas.

  1. “One lovely thing about Christmas is that is that it is compulsory, like a thunderstorm and we all go through it together.” Garrison Keillor

Remind him that you will always be by his side no matter what comes. This should be the case even after Christmas.

  1. “We all have different paths in life but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere.”

Conclusion

This quote should remind him that even though you are two different people, you are joined together in love. 

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New Beginnings

E,

I saw you yesterday, and yes of course it hurt,but im over it. Im trying to make you not matter any more and its working…slowly.

J,

Boy oh boy, you are beautiful. We can have fun with this.

-B xoxo.

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New Beginnings

E,

I saw you yesterday, and yes of course it hurt,but im over it. Im trying to make you not matter any more and its working…slowly.

J,

Boy oh boy, you are beautiful. We can have fun with this.

-B xoxo.

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New Beginnings

E,

I saw you yesterday, and yes of course it hurt,but im over it. Im trying to make you not matter any more and its working…slowly.

J,

Boy oh boy, you are beautiful. We can have fun with this.

-B xoxo.

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Black Friday Sex Toy Sales & Deals: 2016 Edition

Rather than leaving you to click around in search of the best Black Friday sex toy sales, I’ve conveniently listed all of my faves below. Consider this a token of my appreciation for your support over the years. That and a way of getting you to buy quality sex toys at a fraction of the cost, ’cause that’s just how I do.

Like last year I tried to streamline this as best I can, but if you’ve got some time to spare, I suggest doing a quick scroll through all the deals – that way you’ll be sure to get exactly what you want at the best prices. Beware, the list this year is long and surprisingly detailed… that’s what you get when I spend 3 days jumping between sites, comparing prices, emailing manufacturers for advance notice, and doing my damnedest to help you save!

Want to thank me for hooking you up? Just remember to clear your cookies and cache before you link to your favorite store, that way you can be sure I’ll make a tiny commission anytime you shop. It’s usually not a lot of money, but it’s enough to keep me doing something I love.

 

Black Friday Sex Toy Sales 2016

If you don’t feel like scrolling over the whole page, or if you’re easily overwhelmed by big posts, here’s a no bullshit list of the very best deals I could find for some of the very best products…

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Click the links below to go straight to my favorite retailers

Tantus silicone sex toys, the best you can get!Black Friday Sex Toy Sales Fleshlight Black Friday Sex Toy Sales at SheVibeblack friday sex toy sales pinkcherry


Tantus Black Friday Sales

Black Friday Sex Toy Sales - Tantus Tantus, the makers of some of the worlds best silicone toys, one of my absolute most favorite companies ever, has just one major sale going… if you don’t yet own anything by them I HIGHLY suggest you take advantage while you can and treat yo self! You’ll thank me for it later, promise!

As for why you’d want everything Tantus makes;

  • they’re 100% medical grade silicone and won’t absorb bodily fluids, lube, or bacteria
  • are phthalate and latex free (no toxins here!)
  • are easy to care for and clean
  • come in a variety of amazing colors and styles
  • have the very best customer service
  • and most importantly – the toys they make will last you a lifetime with a minimum amount of care. Yes, you’ll spend a bit more than you would on some shitty jelly toy, but you’ll NEVER have to replace them (saving you money in the long run!).

If you still aren’t sure about Tantus I suggest you watch my Tantus Haul video and read about why I’ve loved Tantus for the last 10 years.

Now that I’ve got that out of the way, let’s move on to the sales…

  • First and foremost, the grab bag section has products that are already heavily discounted, we’re talking excessive savings on a normal day… well, right now everything is 40% off so you can save EVEN MORE MONEY! If you don’t care too much about the colors, but want a kick ass toys that are made to last a life time, start here!

Not sure what to buy?

I’ve included some of my fave items below.

There are obviously other things they make that I love, so if you have any questions feel free to ask.

When looking at prices remember I haven’t applied the 40% off!

 

Tantus Uncut #2

Uncut #2 ($99)

Tantus Adam O2

Adam O2 ($114)

Duchess ($106)

Tantus Flurry O2

Flurry O2 ($76)

Tantus Charmer

Charmer ($54)

Slow Drive

Slow Drive ($46)

Curve

Curve ($71)

Plug Kit ($68)

T-Rex ($115)

Anaconda ($66)

 


Fleshlight Black Friday Sales

If there was ever a product range that gave me “penis envy”, it would be made by Fleshlight. Don’t know what a Fleshlight is or why you NEED one? Check the video above, I made it and it explains everything (if you can’t view it here, you should be able to watch on YouTube here).

As for deals, they always have something going on… and Black Friday at Fleshlight is no exception! I’ve listed the sales by percentage below, that way you’ll be able to easily snag the best ones without having to hunt around the site. For the record, everything is 15% – 40% off.

BONUS: Spend $100 get a bonus gift + free shipping, spend $150 get a FREE mystery sleeve + bonus gift + free shipping, spend $200 get a FREE surprise pleasure pack + FREE mystery sleeve + bonus gift + free shipping.

HINT: you’re going to need renew powder to keep your Fleshlight like new, but rather than spending so much on such a small bottle, you’d be better off getting a larger bulk package of corn starch on Amazon. It’s basically the same thing at a fraction of the cost.

*Note: I’m showing the Canadian prices, for U.S. it’ll be slightly lower.

 



Black Friday Sex Toy Sales ShevibeI’ll be honest, I’ve loved SheVibe since the very first day I saw their website 6+ years ago; the graphics are amazing, the prices are some of the lowest you’ll find, the site itself is ridiculously easy to navigate, they focus on carrying body safe options, and the customer service is fabulous. If there was any place I’d want all my readers to shop, it’s here!

Like last year SheVibe is doing a straight forward tiered sale deal…

  • Get 10% off when you spend $85+, plus free shipping (use code ‘KRINGLE10’)
  • Get 15% off when you spend $100+, plus free shipping (use code ‘KRINGLE15’)
  • Get 20% off when you spend $125+, plus free shipping, (use code ‘KRINGLE20’)
  • PLUS: If you spend $109.99+ you’ll also get a free toybox (use code TOYBOX) at checkout. (Yes, you can use both codes)

Not sure what to snag?

I’ve got a few ideas that’ll save you even more loot…

L'amorouse RosaL’amorouse Rosa G-Spot Vibe

Right now my favorite g-spot vibe is the L’amorouse Rosa; the vibrations are deep and rumbly, the body safe silicone is smooth, supple, and so lovely to touch, there’s 9 different vibration settings to go through, it’s rechargeable, waterproof, whisper quiet, and the curve is like nothing I’ve ever experienced.

Although it’s not the cheapest toy around, coming in at $128 (with “KRINGLE20” discount), SheVibe has it for the lowest price I’ve seen anywhere so far.

– The Perfect G-Spot Kit

Njoy Pure Wand

Liberator Decor Throe

Decor Throe

Sliquid H2O Water Based Lube

Sliquid H20

You could pair the definitive g-spot ‘dildo’, Njoy Pure Wand for $99 (Njoy has it listed for $110) + Liberator Decor Throe for $89 (reg $120), or any of the Liberator Throes for that matter, + 4oz bottle of Sliquid H2O for $8, then use code ‘KRINGLE20’ at checkout and save an additional 20%, plus free shipping! Honestly, if I could pick any combo of toys to give someone, this one would be it. If you’re a squirter you’ll thank me for this later. Promise.

*with the discount code you’re looking at saving $80 vs buying items separately at regular price!

– Amazing Toys & Prices You Wont Find Anywhere Else –

*prices shown include applicable discounts

Doxy Wand

Die Cast Doxy

Gold G-Spoon #2

Nob Seduction

Marble Shilo

Mustang Royale

 

(*use code ‘KRINGLE20’ to save 20% on everything pictured above).

 


PinkCherry

PinkCherry is often the first place I check when it comes to Black Friday sex toy sales. This year they did not disappoint! It’s pretty easy to snag something kickass… you just need to know where to look. My fave deals are listed below.

Note: Everything on the website is 20% off, but if you use code ‘BLACK50’ you’ll save 50% on everything JimmyJane makes, 50% on Lingerie Blowouts, 50% on Sportsheets Bondage Bed Sheet Sets, and an extra 50% on their already reduced Sex Toy Blowout Sale section.

* Don’t forget, use code ‘BLACK50‘ when you checkout to save.

As for other sales:

Bathmate Penis Pump

BathMate Pump

WeVibe Tango

Original Hitachi

24k Gold Form 2

Liberator Wedge

 

About The Author: Kara Sutra is a sex-positive professional, writer and reviewer, vlogger, branding, media and publicity creation consultant spends her days sharing sex advice on the web.

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Thankful

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The holiday season is upon us, tomorrow is American Thanksgiving. 

 

I am thankful for attending my little sister’s wedding this past week end, and reuniting with my sisters from long ago.  These women are my sisters of my heart, we met 25 years ago and life has never been the same.  Through it all—the ups, the downs, the in betweens…they’ve always been there.  And collectively, our little sister who is twelve years younger than us, is as much as our little sibling as a ‘real’ family could be.  We’re so happy for her and her new hubby, and for all the joy and love and laughter that their wedding brought to our lives this past week end and for the future to come!  I am thankful for my chosen family, scattered across the united states, far from my eyes, but always in my heart.

 

I am thankful that tonight I’ll be busting out my mother’s and my grandmother’s Thanksgiving recipes and prepping for the big Thanksgiving feast tomorrow.  Since my mother is so far away and physically unable to travel, and my grandmother passed long ago, I feel like they’re with me when I’m cooking the big dishes, especially when my daughters eagerly help me crush up the pecans for part of the Thanksgiving day feast.

 

I am thankful for my two daughters, for their silliness and love and caring and eagerness to learn more about the world.  I’m thankful for bedtime prayers with them, for saying goodnight, and for waking up and sleepily putting their hair in ponytails for school.  I’m thankful for the way they help feed and care for our huge puppy G, and also how DD2 is carefully growing lettuce in her garden, every day checking the new sprouts and wondering how tall the seedlings will grow.  For DD1’s careful consideration between embarking on tennis and pursuing this instead of dance, or reading her favorite book, or texting with her friends on her iPod, shrugging off holding my hand in the parking lot, but then also asking me to tuck her in at night. 

 

I am thankful for my hubby, who accompanied me to DD1’s music recital the other night, shaking hands with the girls’ father and sitting with DD2, and being kind and supportive.  I am thankful for his love and kindness and for the seriousness that he wears his stepfather role, the seriousness that he takes on in providing for our family, and for the thoughtfulness and love he gives to me and the girls every day.

 

I am thankful for my job, even though it’s been a big pain in the a$$ lately with increased responsibility, lol, but on a more serious note, I’m thankful that I’m growing as a person who is consciously supervising staff and in trying to help others with new initiatives to reach out to the public.  And that through the craziness of all my personal life changes, my job has been there like a solid lifeline, allowing me to grow professionally at the same time giving me the means to support my little family.

 

I am thankful for my chosen family here where I live, for being able to celebrate DD2’s BFF’s birthday this coming week end by watching Moana together and having a girls’ sleepover, woot woot!

 

I am thankful that my neighbors aren’t mad at me (or at least they’re keeping it to themselves) for not taking down my cheesy Halloween lights, because I’m going to replace them with Christmas lights anyway, on Friday.  And I’m thankful we’ll be able to get our Christmas tree on Friday, too!

 

I am thankful for this moment right now, even though I’m going to have to rush out of work like a bat out of H E double hockey-sticks, because my after school care fell apart and five girl scouts are showing up at my house in a couple of hours.

 

I am breathing in this moment of thankfulness in a sea of craziness and storms.  Because at the end of the day, I am thankful for the love I have in my life—from my family and friends.  Each year, I really think it’s getting better, and I’m so thankful for that, too.

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Kegel Exercises for Men to Improve Your Sexual Performance

Try these simple exercises and you’ll not only have longer, harder erections, you’ll last longer in bed, and you’ll also be able to shoot like a porn star, so get reading.

You may not be familiar with your pubococcygeus muscles, but this article could actually improve your sexual stamina many times over. Your so called PC muscles are located in your pelvic floor and are the very same muscles that help stop you urinating mid-flow. Next time your visit the bathroom try and isolate these muscles by stopping the stream a few times, (don’t do this regularly as it can be harmful).

I hear many guys complaining about not being able to last long enough in bed and the following workouts could help improve your love life.

Strengthening your PC muscles not only maintains a fully functioning and healthy pelvic floor, they also give you a stronger, longer lasting erection, improves your sexual stamina greatly, and actually make you ejaculate much further if your so wish-many well know porn actors regularly work these muscles out.

Give it a try and reap the rewards; much more important than hours of bicep curls in the gym-this one will keep them wanting more… If you dont want to work and wait, you can try male enhancement pills, here is the VigRX Plus review

Dont wanna pills? Okay! First Isolate this muscle as explained above, (try placing a small towel over your erection and attempting to lift it. 

Exercise 1:

  • Squeeze your PC muscles and hold for 3 seconds-have a 3 second rest and repeat-do this 12 times
  • Squeeze and hold for 10 seconds, then release for 5- do 12 reps
  • Try doing short waves of contractions followed by 10 second holds. Have a breather and repeat.

Do any of these exercise variations 3 times a day, which should last around 5 minutes each. Do it while watching TV, driving your car, or sitting at your desk-just remember not to pull faces else your colleagues will wonder what up with you. 

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How to Survive the Holidays and Enjoy Them in Ten Steps

 
Holidays can range from an enthusiastic yay to a hard nay, depending mainly on who your family is.
 
For many, the holidays are super exciting. But others actually dread this time of year. Our lives are filled with stress and sometimes a lot of pain. Family can sometimes exacerbate those feelings. We are often reminded why we moved away from home in the first place.  When your stress levels hit the roof, the holidays easily become nothing but an overwhelming hassle and the meaning in them is lost.
 
In years past, I wished we could skip the holidays all together –until I came up with my own ways to reduce my holiday stress. Follow these steps to make the best of this time of year. Who knows? You may even end up enjoying the holidays.  
 
1.  No Politics.
Don’t discuss politics at your holiday gatherings. DON’T do it! The recent election has been rough for many of us and while there may be issues about which you are passionate, set them aside for now. When other family members try to nudge you, don’t engage. Do this for your own sake.
 
2.  Know your triggers.
Know what topics make you stressed and upset. Is it your passive aggressive MIL who comments on how much weight you’ve gained since last year? The sibling who doesn’t help with the dishes? The family member who drinks too much and says things that can’t be unsaid?  Or Worse?

It’s important to know what sets you off. We can’t change others, but we can control our decisions and responses by avoiding triggering situations and topics.
 
3.  Set boundaries.
Once you know your triggers, set boundaries around them ahead of time. If things escalate, pre-determined boundaries can empower you to walk away before things get out of hand. Possible boundaries include not answering the phone and/or leaving when your drunk uncle starts hitting the Wild Turkey.  

Boundaries with family need to be gentle yet firm. You don’t have to make a big to do about it. Be brief and make statements that are about your own feelings and needs.  “Thanks for dinner. We have to get home” or “When we start discussing religion I worry our differences in opinions will upset someone, so I’m going to leave the room.”

4.   Family of choice is powerful.
It’s not easy to make the choice to discontinue a relationship with a family member and  I don’t encourage this as your first step, but there are times where this needs to be done.

Wait, there is good news: there is this thing called “framily.” Family doesn’t have to be blood-related; friends are just as much family for many of us.  Have a Friendsgiving or other holidays with framily instead of family. 

5.  Keep family visits short. 
Family and fish have a lot in common: they get old and stinky fast. A short, successful visit together can be what works best.  Similarly, when you travel to see family, consider staying at a hotel.  This gives you all a break from one another to recharge for the next day. 
 
6.  Love and kindness. 
When I feel most upset, the best way out of my funk is to do something kind and loving. This could be something for someone who is a complete stranger, myself, or even someone who doesn’t deserve it. Involve your kids and f(r)amily.  Acts of service for others make a huge difference in your world and someone else’s.
 
7.  Invent new traditions.
Create fun, healthy, and new things to do with your kids. Give them memories of the holidays different from your own. You may not be able to change your past experiences with holidays but you can impact your children’s. One of my biggest challenges (I’m not good at) has been keeping my negativity about the holidays to myself.  Suck it up and don’t be a holiday buzz kill for the sake of those around you.
 
8.  Just say No! 
You do not have to attend every event you are invited to. Challenge yourself to say “yes” when it’s something you want to do and say “no” when it’s something you don’t.   
 
9.  Destination trips.
When all else fails, just go out of town. It’s a perfect excuse for not being able to attend get togethers you don’t want to attend. “Thank you for the invite, but we’ll be out of town.” Boom. Done. No drama.
 
10.  Plan self-care.
The healthy people of the world take care of themselves before they give to others.  Consider this permission to do what is best for you so you have the energy to suffer through one more holiday.
 

In the past, you may have defined a successful holiday as one that didn’t involve the cops showing up. That’s great, but let’s shoot for more this year.
 
After Thanksgiving, tell me how these tips helped you deal with your own crazy family.  If you have a particular situation you are anticipating dealing with, ask me about it! I love to help.
 
“Happy” Holidays! (No, seriously, I mean it!)

Julianne Curtis is a birth, postpartum, and bereavement doula from fort Collins Colorado. She is also a life coach an parent coach. For more information on the doula services and coaching she provides in Northern Colorado visit her website here.  

New parents check out the blog on PLANNING FOR THE FOURTH TRIMESTER. This post applies to the holidays too. 

 
#Friendsgiving #Framily #Holidayhell #TurkeydayYourway #Frenemies #Thanksgiving #Christmas #Xmas #Tistheseason #holidayselfcare #holidaysurvialguide #crazyfamlies #grizwaldholiday #holidaytradition 

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Why Love Is A Great Source Of Inspiration

As the fire that ignites our creativity, inspiration is vital for a fulfilling life because it energizes us, brings us a new wave of ideas and it makes us see old things in new ways. That said, it is not easy to provoke inspiration, mostly because we don’t fully know how it works. However, it is proven that strong emotions can generate a powerful stream of inspiration.

Inspiration is crucial for any human endeavor, it is the seed that allows anything to grow. In this regard, it works very well with love and with being in a loving relationship. No matter how interesting we are as individuals, our perceptions about things can become stale after a while if we don’t learn to open up to others and to explore their perceptions in relation to ours. In a relationship, we are required to open up completely and sincerely to another human being and this creates a channel of communication that allows an air of freshness, novelty, and excitement to arise. A great relationship can be a greater way to knowledge than a trip around the world, because it allows us to see the world through the eyes of the person we love. We have a chance to connect at a deep level with another human being, to share both our inner and social lives, to explore new perspectives, ideas and ways of acting, thinking, or loving.  This is precisely how inspiration appears.

What better way to live a passionate life, filled with emotion, than being in a loving relationship? When we love we are prone to go through all sorts of extreme emotions, mostly positive ones, besides some negative ones. If we learn how to recognize these emotions we can channel them towards growth and use them as an inspiration to live meaningful, creative, and fulfilling lives. We can wake up each morning inspired by the love for our partner.

When we feel inspired, we feel powerful. Our motivation and our desire to achieve things grows unprecedentedly while our ability to understand grows deeper. We can finally see a clear horizon ahead, where anything is possible and where we are the heroes of our own stories. Nothing can be achieved without inspiration, that divine energy that puts us right in the flow of life.  However, we cannot summon inspiration directly, just by wishing, praying or thinking. Inspiration visits us in peculiar moments, usually when we put ourselves on the frequency of intense emotional waves. A love relationship makes it easier. We are flooded with love for the other, we become curious about everything concerning their life, their mind and their soul, we feel elated, we feel excited about the future or rather anxious about it, we might feel jealousy, and all sorts of emotions. These emotions have the ability to tune us to the level of inspiration, because both emotions and inspiration operate beyond the logical reasoning of our brains. They slow down our powerful rational minds to allow for a greater power to circulate within us. Simply put, love is inspiration.

Inspiration allows us to see the paths ahead more clearly and to find the confidence to believe that we are capable to follow any of these paths and to do it in a great fashion. Inspiration allows us to pursue our dreams without fear and hesitation, and to believe that we are worthy of our dreams. At the same time, it gives us the strength to work for what we want, while maintaining the faith that everything will fall into place.  Without inspiration, we cannot even conceive that there is a possibility for us to escape our current state and to reach a higher one. That is why inspiration is the key for a life of growth. When you feel inspired, everything speaks to you, every problem you see becomes an opportunity to explore solutions, not an obstacle to deter you from your growth.

 Inspiration works on every level of life. It sustains our personal and professional life with new and excellent insights. It bolsters spiritual, emotional and intellectual growth. Inspiration is the force behind any creative pursuit and creativity affects how we dress, how are homes look like, how we manage our jobs, what hobbies we take and even how we cook. Inspiration works hand in hand with creativity. There is a lot of creativity in a loving relationship, in how we show our love, but most importantly, love and relationships are the most important playground where we can feel inspired, motived, confident, and energized.

 A loving and lasting relationship is the source from where we gather our strength and where we can work on our assets to become better and better. If we don’t feel inspired by the person we love and by the relationship we work for, then that is an unhealthy sign which should tell us that there are better ways to live.

 

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